Drawing your attention to a very good article:
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It's widely held that when dealing with abortion, rape and incest are special cases. Most people will say abortion is the closest thing to a solution in such cases. Even those who disagree — who point out that an innocent child shouldn't perish for the sins of his father — often share the popular assumption that abortion would be something of a relief to the woman who's been victimized. In short, the notion is that the interests of the woman and her child are in conflict: What's good for one is bad for the other.
But is that true? Some Harvard students thought otherwise, and they decided to put forth their dissenting view in a very public way....
It's a shame, if not a surprise, that the issue HRL tried to raise largely got lost in the process. Their point, after all, was that abortion is not only morally wrong, but it also harms the women it's allegedly going to help. It's a devil's bargain: It promises relief from a seemingly unbearable burden in return for sin, but it ends up bringing burdens that are truly unbearable.
And that's true even in cases of rape — a point testified to by researchers who've spent time talking with the women who've experienced it.
"The welfare of a mother and her child are never at odds, even in sexual assault cases," says Dr. David Reardon, a full-time researcher into the impact of abortion on women, in a valuable article, "Rape, Incest and Abortion: Searching Beyond the Myths." "Both the mother and child are helped by preserving life, not by perpetuating violence."
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An excellent article. Thanks for the link.
I couldn't bring myself to read the article (too upsetting for me), but may I comment anyway?
I used to know a woman who conceived 2 children by her adopted father (rape) at about age 18-21. She said she never regrets bringing them to term & raising them. She said raising her children was healing.
Anonymous, people are *always* free to comment as long as they're not obscene or personally attacking others (those will be deleted). Thank you for sharing.
I was so struck by the statistic in the article that said that 75% of women who conceive through rape (which is actually rather unusual) do choose to carry the baby to term even if they then allow someone to adopt him. That is something that is certainly never publicized.
I know someone who was conceived by "date rape" -- coerced, girl was 15 and man was 20. The mother never considered abortion for a moment, put her child up for adoption, and never got to meet her. The child grew up to be a lovely woman and the mother of four handsome, intelligent sons. One of the first things the child said to me when we met, "I'm so grateful she let me live." So are a lot of other people.
Thanks for sharing, LV. (:
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